Healing the sacred feminine and masculine. Partnerships and manifestation - Respect, honour and reverence towards each other.

People of this world hear this!

When a partnership is based upon pure love and reverence for each other the manifestation dynamics alter drastically as you worship the quintessential creator energy present within each other. This is true of same sex couples (SSCs) too as we all have male/female creator energy within and although I refer to female/male, SSCs are included.

Let’s look at partnership dynamics and the chemical reactions present within healthy and unhealthy partnerships.

Healthy relationships

trigger safety responses and love mode so inducing the release of powerful feel-good hormones such as

Oxytocin,

Serotonin

And Dopamine

Toxic relationships and a negative environment

prompt survival mode and the 5 F stress response within the body releasing negative hormones such as

Adrenaline

And Cortisol

With this in mind what do we believe toxicity does to creativity and health. Boys and men need to be taught this to stop the widespread misogyny that is taking place on the internet.

I hear many males saying that women only want them for their money and providing ability but what must be understood is the female is actually a master creator when she is cared for, loved, and feels safe enough to become the empowered Goddess. The empowered Goddess attracts abundance in, and it is him who helps her to get there with his attitude of kindness and reverence.

So, it is teamwork, kindness, patience and reverence for The God and Goddess within each other evokes rewiring of the nervous systems in both parties, so together you can become master creators.

When she really feels the constant gentleness, kind words and love coming from her partner, she flourishes into her Goddess self, thus emanating abundance, confidence and peace. On being this kind and nurturing person, he taps into his own feminine energy, further facilitating creativity and abundance.

Accomplishing this together is about conscious healthy relationship and being willing to go into your childhood programming’s and healing the many layers of misinformation, darkness and hurt which does not facilitate MetaMorphosis.

MetaMorphosis takes time and he must be committed to becoming the highest gentlest version of himself too, so understanding and disseminating his darkness within.

Men carry trauma, anxieties, and insecurities from childhood as do women, and the importance of looking at triggers as they arise in daily life should not be underestimated. It is very easy to project these triggers outwardly onto our partner, or even run away, but actually it is very necessary to recognise that as the trigger, they are not the issue. The issue is within and that is where the work must be done and be viewed through the lens of opportunities for growth and healing.

When he decides to communicate gently and consciously, even whilst in internal conflict he creates the safe space for her healing too.

This precipitates the feel-good hormones release rather than adrenaline and cortisol. The importance of this act should not ever be underestimated because in healing himself he is healing generational wounds that then cannot enter into the next generation, either through their DNA or through the modelling of inappropriate behaviours.

They, together build a castle of sanctuary for each other and their children, and the rippling effect penetrates up and down through the timelines and the beast is laid to rest once and for all.

When she has your constant approval and dopamine, oxytocin and serotonin flooding her body she then feels emotionally, mentally and spiritually secure so facilitating her Goddess energy to flourish. No more is her heart weighed down with trauma she is safe to thrive and on thriving she precipitates you to thrive too and the partnership.

The introspection necessary for this healing to occur does not come easily to men however it is necessary rather than covering up the pain with any form of substance use or projecting it outward. On healing himself he facilitates a deep change in the woman he loves. As he practices active listening without judging or the need to fix, she intuitively feels this change and so lets her walls come tumbling down and together they build a partnership rooted in trust, understanding and deep emotional intimacy. They bear their souls to each other and during junctures of high vulnerability, when he shares his deepest fears and insecurities their loving responses towards each other heals wounds that have been surreptitiously carried for years.

The importance of consistency and emotional availability cannot be undervalued here as it is not enough to be there on just the good days, your presence must be there on the not so good days too. Withdrawing emotionally stops her feeling safe, so then the cortisol and adrenaline are released into her system. Commitment to each other and the partnership entails being an unwavering presence in LOVE for both parties, at all times securing even more love and a ever deepening connection.

So, to the guys who mistakenly believe a woman just wants you for your money that is quite frankly an erroneous belief system. What she wants is to feel loved, secure, respected and revered thus allowing her Goddess self to shine out through which is a magnet for creating abundance together, mystically transforming you both, your family and the society around you. Whilst it is not an easy path for any man it is one of the highest and most rewarding routes he can walk, just by taking responsibility for healing his wounds, being introspective enough to do so and being emotionally available. It is never about perfection but seeing through the illusions and making that commitment towards healing himself and her.

Love Melanie <3 MM <3

Healing the divine masculine and feminine