45. Do not take it personally.

45. DO NOT TAKE IT PERSONALLY AS YOU ARE SHINING BRIGHTLY
Others' negativity is usually their own projections onto you!

This card is about other people, and their projections and negative energy directed at you! The key message here is do not take it personally as it is all about them and their troubles and personality; it is NOT about you, so do not allow yourself to be eaten up, put down or used as a verbal punching bag! Or a physical one, come to that!

Another's perception of you is not your responsibility. "What they think," is about them, so just let them believe what they will. If their projections are, or become more challenging or formidable in nature, you are well within your rights to assertively yet calmly ask them to be respectful of you and your boundaries or not engage with you at all. You can also walk away, complain, or call the authorities if you are being harassed.
- Here, you need to value yourself and disregard corrosive negativity.
- Remain authentic by continually expressing your talents and creativity and do not dim your light to appease another or to blend in.
- Select environments that bring out the best in you.
- Find groups and connections that encourage a positive growth mindset.

Constructive critique versus negative projections
A considerable distinction exists when comparing negative projections with constructive critique. Constructive critique occurs when people in a partnership of some form, have mutual awareness and gently direct your attention toward behaviours that require reflecting upon. As an example, tardiness. Consider addressing it with, "I understand that timing is difficult, so what can we put in place to support you with time management?"

Whereas projection occurs when an individual lacks conscious awareness, displaying outwardly toward others negative behaviours that reflect their negative perceptions; unconscious bias or an aspect of self they deny. As an example, an individual hating sexual diversity is often because they suppress their own sexual diversity and erroneously believe it perverse.

Further interpretation
While it may seem intensely personal, and being sensitive is a strength, there are moments when we need to be careful not to absorb another person's negativity that is aimed at us, or to let ourselves feel bad or inferior because another individual is experiencing a challenging day.

Power Prompt: The Universal Mirror always shows that which is unconscious. What is the Universe trying to tell you?
Affirmation: I AM authentic and radiantly shine brightly!
Signposts: Number: 45 – Letter: S – Time Frame: 9 days.
Element: Water - Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio.