90. Your sexuality

90. YOUR SEXUALITY, THE KUNDALINI, AND YOUR BREATH

As humans are evolving, so is our understanding of sexuality. Metaphysically, as The Sacred Goddess and Divine Masculinity (God) is in all of us, this is going to manifest itself in every way possible. There is a theory that we are becoming androgynous.

There is no right or wrong way to LOVE as an adult (children must of course MUST ALWAYS BE SAFEFGUARDED from sexualisation in any form). Our sexuality is a major key to opening up spiritually, releasing the kundalini, which rises right through our chakra system from the base (root) chakra, energy that is very healing. We directly contact our higher self at orgasm because "no-mind" is present, which completely suppresses the mind and its controlling ways. We can use our sexuality as a vehicle to support our spiritual development.

At orgasm, the brain releases dopamine and oxytocin, which are both feel good, reward hormones. Needing more of these hormone releases can cause sexual addiction. Master Tantric and Tao practices teach everyone should learn how to please themselves without using visual external stimuli but just using the breath whilst stimulating self. Men should learn to control their orgasm, and they should stave off ejaculation by stopping just before orgasm while self-pleasuring. Pleasuring self can then continue. This is meditation self-pleasuring without orgasm. Men should use their whole penis in self-pleasuring, not just the tip.

Mature self-pleasuring is a divine gift to bring to the relationship table, enhancing both partners' sexual experience. Women should also be able to self-pleasure without limitation, and women do not need to stop themselves from orgasming. Everyone is capable of multiple orgasms, and on learning how to self-pleasure, we can then teach our partner how to pleasure us.

Remember to use the breath as this is a gateway to the kundalini release, right up through the chakras. Conscious breathing triggers the pineal gland, which enhances emotional equilibrium; mental clarity; psychic ability and melatonin production. Melatonin supports a nourishing sleep.
Masters of their sexuality (men and women) may find themselves during dream time, meeting out of body with their partner, to teach them how to pleasure. The partner will then put this learning into practice during the next meeting.

Energetically, there are reasons and arguments for not being with too many sexual partners and for keeping sex sacred.

We, the Masters in spirit, are all for sexual empowerment in all humans, but we also must empower you with knowledge too, so know this, please. Every partner leaves an energetic imprint upon you, and furnished with this knowledge, choose your partners with care before giving your sexuality away!
Energetic imprinting occurs in two fundamental ways –
• as you experience sexual contact, the energy systems of the individuals involved become intertwined and united, integrating their energetic essence into your energy field
• through sperm, when it enters the body, attaches itself to cells in the recipient, so again imprinting energetically upon the recipient's body
This can then mean that you find you are taking on their energetic baggage and attracting towards you their challenges and personality traits.
Partnerships and manifestation
Respect, honour and reverence towards each other!

People of this world, hear this!
When a partnership is based upon pure love and reverence for each other, the manifestation dynamics alter drastically as you worship the quintessential creator energy present within each other. The same applies to same-sex couples (SSCs), because everyone has male/female creator energy, and although my reference is to female/male, SSCs are part of it too.
Let us look at partnership dynamics and the chemical reactions present within healthy and unhealthy partnerships.

Healthy relationships trigger safety responses and love mode, so inducing the release of powerful feel-good hormones such as
Oxytocin,
Serotonin
and Dopamine

Toxic relationships
and a negative environment prompt survival mode and the 5 F stress response within the body releasing negative hormones such as
Adrenaline
and Cortisol

With this in mind, what do we believe toxicity does to creativity and health? Boys and men need to be taught this to stop the widespread misogyny that is taking place on the internet.

While I've heard many men suggest women are solely interested in their financial resources and ability to provide, it's crucial to comprehend that a woman possesses an innate creative power, particularly when she is nurtured, cherished, and feels secure enough to embody her empowered feminine essence. The empowered Goddess attracts abundance in, and it is he who helps her to get there with his attitude of kindness and reverence.

So, it is teamwork, kindness, patience and reverence for The God and Goddess within each other that evokes rewiring of the nervous systems in both parties, so together you can become master creators.
When she really feels the constant gentleness, kind words and love coming from her partner, she flourishes into her Goddess self, thus emanating abundance, confidence, and peace. In being this kind and nurturing person, he taps into his own feminine energy, further facilitating creativity and abundance.

Accomplishing this together is about conscious, healthy partnership and being willing to go into your childhood programming and healing the many layers of misinformation, darkness and hurt, which does not facilitate MetaMorphosis. He will need to understand and disseminate his darkness from within, which is a process that requires time, along with a commitment to become the highest, gentlest version of himself.
Similar to women, men also carry trauma, anxieties, and insecurities that stem from their childhood experiences, and it is crucial not to undervalue the significance of addressing triggers as they emerge in everyday situations. While it may be tempting to project these triggers onto our partner or even avoid the situation entirely, it is essential to understand that the trigger itself is not the underlying problem. We must do the work within ourselves and view it through the lens of opportunities for growth and healing.

When he communicates gently and consciously, even whilst in internal conflict, he creates the safe space for her healing too. This precipitates the release of feel-good hormones rather than adrenaline and cortisol. We should never underestimate this act because he heals himself and heals generational wounds, which then cannot affect the next generation through their DNA or through the modelling of inappropriate behaviour.
They built a castle of sanctuary together for each other and their children, the rippling effect penetrating up and down through the timelines, and the beast rested for the last time. When she has your constant approval and dopamine, oxytocin and serotonin flooding her body, she then feels emotionally, mentally, and spiritually secure, so facilitating her Goddess energy to flourish. No longer is her heart weighed down with trauma, so she is safe to thrive and, on thriving, induces you to thrive too and the partnership.

The introspection necessary for this healing to occur does not come easily to men; however, it is necessary rather than covering up the pain with any form of substance use or projecting it outward. In healing himself, he facilitates a deep change in the woman he loves. As he practices active listening without judging or the need to fix, she intuitively feels this change and so lets her walls come tumbling down and together they build a partnership rooted in trust, understanding and deep emotional intimacy. They reveal their innermost thoughts to each other, and when he shares his deepest fears and insecurities during times of high vulnerability, their loving responses heal wounds they had secretly carried for years.

We cannot undervalue the importance of consistency and emotional availability here, as you must be present not only on the good days but also on the not so good days too. Emotionally withdrawing from her causes her to no longer feel safe, which subsequently results in the release of cortisol and adrenaline into her system. If there is a commitment to each other and the partnership, it requires an unwavering presence in LOVE for both parties at all times, thus securing even more love and resulting in an ever-deepening connection.

So, to the guys who mistakenly believe a woman just wants you for your money, that is an erroneous belief system. What she wants is to feel loved, secure, respected and revered, thus allowing her Goddess self to shine out through which is a magnet for creating abundance together, mystically transforming you both, your family, and the surrounding society. Whilst it is not a simple path for any man, it is one of the highest and most rewarding routes he can walk, just by taking responsibility for healing his wounds, being introspective enough to do so and being emotionally available. It is never about perfection but seeing through the illusions and making that commitment towards healing himself and her.

Power Prompt: Let go of inflexible thinking patterns.
Affirmation: I AM in control of my sexuality and use it as a sacred expression of LOVE!
Signposts: Number: 90 – Letter: SH – Timeframe: 3 months.
Element: Earth - Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn. Element Fire - Aries, Leo, Sagittarius.

Making love, sexuality and energetic hygiene. Food for thought.

Pictured here is a traditional union, but this is also true of same-sex couples. As you can see, the chakra system is also visually displayed.

We are all for individuals exploring their sexuality and learning to use the breath to enhance their sexuality and so spirituality. When an orgasm occurs, the mind quiets and the ego recedes, creating a space where the higher self can be experienced.

Now we have contraception and barrier methods, so there is not the risk of an untimely pregnancy, but we do not believe that because of this, that being indiscriminately sexually active with others is wise because of this.

Learning to self-pleasure without the use of visual stimulation is an important skill to develop, particularly until a foundation of love, or a solid partnership, has been established. While it might appear this statement aligns with the standards of a morally Victorian or religiously pious era, the context is entirely unrelated to either morality or piety. I will explain further.

When we make love with another our spirits, our nervous systems, our bodies, and our bodily fluids meld which is great when you are in a loving partnership but for the single person it is not always so great, because of this melding occurring on so many levels. We can literally take on within ourselves our sexual partners' energetic imprint, so then we find we must deal with programming's conditioning and negativity that are just not ours to bear.

Semen, when in another's body, entwines itself into their DNA, so potentially imprinting the male's whole family's lineage, into the other person.
Sex is amazing, so enjoy it, but let it stem from LOVE and commitment.