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46. Calm, not drama

'AU'Xiliary Arcana

Time Frame - 4-6 months

46. CALM, NOT DRAMA.
This message may pertain either to you or to someone close who is finding it challenging to sustain emotional equilibrium. Given the significant value of mental wellbeing, it is essential to address such concerns at their root, internally.

It is observable that dramatic situations often follow cyclical repetitive patterns, gaining momentum through engagement and fuelled through emotional response, then subsiding after being fed and reinforced. For this reason, many respected figures cited in spiritual texts advise approaches such as "turning the other cheek." Such guidance refers not to turning away from the core light and essence of the other individual, but to the behaviour they display. These behaviours are driven either by fear, ignorance, power trips, which are all negative ego, and then perpetuated further through engagement. Thus, feeding the beast!

Calmness means observing events without emotional reaction
This prevents the feeding of negative forces. When you consciously witness instead of reacting, these energies lose power and eventually dissipate through lack of fuel. This frees the energy up to be transmuted.

Stay observant so your inner light remains strong and unaffected by drama, whether yours or others'. Avoid fuelling negativity. Instead, offer empathy and support while letting others find their own strength. Share helpful tools, but remember, each person must take responsibility for their own resilience. We can just be it and therefore model it for them.

Spiritual development involves striving to reach one's highest potential and fostering similar growth in others when invited to do so. This approach enables the higher self to guide and support individuals in fulfilling their life's purpose. It is not our responsibility to take on the burdens or resolve the challenges of others.

Give equal credence to internal and external realities.
Achieving this balance enables us to maintain healthy relationships and manage responsibility. You may observe that individuals who seek to involve you in conflict or personal dramas are less likely to remain present in your life when you choose not to engage with such behaviour.

When drama arises, observe consciously rather than react emotionally. This requires practice, as habitual reactions seek emotional responses for relief, but these urges diminish without reinforcement. Ask energy what it seeks and make clear you won't sustain it.

Power Prompt: Review expectations.
Affirmation: My inner light outweighs needless turbulence.
Signposts: Number: 46 – Letter: T – Time Frame: 4-6 months.
Element: Air (Aquarius, Gemini, Libra). 

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