86. Victim or multiple suitors

86. VICTIM OR MULTIPLE SUITORS
Message - This card has two main meanings: feeling victimised or there are two or three suitors in play
Both meanings may apply

If one delves into the deeper meaning of life, ceasing to feel victimised is an empowering approach to existence, because regrettably, those who see themselves as victims energetically attract in those who would take advantage of them. Unfortunately, predators can smell a victim a mile away, so do what you need to do to keep yourself feeling safe, strong, and empowered.

Giving up the need will stop them from being attracted toward you!
Predators dislike empowered, emotionally detached people because they cannot drain them energetically. If you attract predators, look at what you are giving off energetically, which is essentially what you are needy of, that attracts them in.

The other meaning of this card is there are two or three suitors to choose from in your arena. Getting to know them all with no commitment or sexual contact is the best way forward! Practice emotional detachment to discern who is the best partner material.

By taking your time, observing how each individual treats you and others, and staying clear-headed, you create space for clarity to emerge. Remember that you are not obliged to rush into any decision—honouring your own boundaries allows genuine connections to reveal themselves. In this way, you maintain your personal power and ensure that your choices align with your true values, fostering a sense of empowerment rather than dependency on external validation.

An excellent way to discern how "another them in the future" treats "a future you" is to watch them when out and about to see how they treat other people and, most importantly, how they treat their parents and siblings. This tells a massive story of who they are at their core.

Power Prompt: You may not control another's actions, but you do have control over your reactions to them.
Affirmation: I AM empowered in my choices!
Signposts: Number: 86 – Letter: S – Timeframe: 48 days.
Element: Water - Pisces, Cancer, Scorpio.